Learning The Hard Way
Through out the Gospels Jesus told stories that leave a lasting impression on us. One of my favorites is the story of the prodigal son, or sons is really more accurate. So much in that story speaks to me, because in many ways it was me. I have heard many lessons based on this story , but there is one aspect I don’t think I have ever heard anyone address.
When the prodigal son comes to the father demanding his inheritance now, before the death of his father, the father just gives it to him and allows him to leave; no questions, no argument and no discussion. There is no pleading to rethink his decision. Nothing from the father about the consequences of this fool hearty decision. He just lets him go!
Could it be that there are some lessons that are best and only learned the hard way. We do all we can to protect our children. We teach, we warn, we speak of consequences, we preach, but often the lessons are not learned until they reap the consequences. It rips at our heart, as it must have the father in the story, but we like he, can only stand, watch, and then wait. What do you think? Are there some lessons that are only learned the hard way?
